FAQ
Answers before you choose a memorial gift
Practical details about ashes jewelry, personalized gifts, production timing, shipping, returns, and care.
What does Jewel Lay sell?
Jewel Lay sells ashes jewelry, personalized memorial gifts, memorial blankets, sympathy gifts, candles, ornaments, and journals.
What is cremation jewelry?
Cremation jewelry is a small pendant, ring, bracelet, or charm with a discreet chamber for ashes or another tiny memorial keepsake.
How do personalized gifts work?
Enter the name, dates, or message on the product page. Jewel Lay reviews the layout before sending the order to the production partner.
How long do personalized gifts take?
Personalized memorial gifts usually take about 10 business days for custom production before shipping.
Can personalized gifts be returned?
Personalized items are made for one order and can only be returned for damage or production error. Review spelling, dates, and messages carefully before checkout.
What can the Blue Heart necklace hold?
It can hold a small amount of ashes, fur, dried flowers, perfume, hair, sand, soil, or a tiny written note.
What is the necklace made from?
The Blue Heart pendant is made from 925 sterling silver with rhodium plating. The Tree pendant is made from 925 sterling silver with a vintage oxidized finish. Both include a 22-inch stainless steel cable chain.
What size is the pendant?
The pendant measures 0.78 inches by 0.94 inches and weighs 6.16g. The included jewelry box measures 2.7 inches by 3.1 inches by 1.1 inches.
Does the necklace include filling tools?
Yes. Each order includes the necklace, 22-inch stainless steel cable chain, funnel filler, silver polishing cloth, and jewelry box. The 22-inch curb chain is available for $5 more.
Can I change the engraving or gem color?
No. The necklace is sold as shown with the Forever in My Heart engraving and blue crystal heart.
Can I give it as a sympathy gift?
Yes. It is gift-ready, but the recipient should decide what goes inside and when they are ready to fill it.
Is the necklace waterproof?
It should be removed before bathing, swimming, or applying fragrance. Keeping it dry helps protect the finish and chamber.
How do I clean the pendant?
Use the included polishing cloth to gently rub the pendant. Do not wash the cloth because the polishing agents will be removed. Black marks on the cloth are normal when tarnish is lifted.
What is the return window?
Refunds and exchanges are available within 21 days of purchase for unused, non-personalized items returned in the original packaging. Please contact support before returning an item.
How much is shipping?
Standard United States shipping is free for domestic orders. Expedited United States shipping is $15, and international shipping is $15.
How does checkout work?
Choose the necklace, chain, and USPS shipping method on Jewel Lay. Stripe then collects your email, shipping name and address, and payment in one secure step. Stripe creates your receipt and invoice, and Jewel Lay uses the completed order details to prepare the USPS label in ShipStation.